1 00:00:00,140 --> 00:00:01,140 mm , 2 00:00:06,940 --> 00:00:09,170 I'm always interested in learning more 3 00:00:09,170 --> 00:00:12,020 about how I can help people who may be 4 00:00:12,020 --> 00:00:15,390 struggling with life 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,160 and thinking about suicide . Um , I 6 00:00:19,170 --> 00:00:21,630 work with clients who have experienced 7 00:00:21,630 --> 00:00:24,640 trauma . So a lot of times they're 8 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,700 thinking about suicide . So I encounter 9 00:00:27,700 --> 00:00:31,380 that regularly and want to have many 10 00:00:31,380 --> 00:00:34,180 tools in my toolbox that I can get for 11 00:00:34,180 --> 00:00:36,124 how to help them , you know , work 12 00:00:36,124 --> 00:00:38,170 through that absolutely . Without a 13 00:00:38,180 --> 00:00:40,500 doubt . Without a doubt , 14 00:00:40,510 --> 00:00:44,260 hurting one hurt . Hall , you heard one 15 00:00:44,260 --> 00:00:46,550 you heard all ? Because that person is 16 00:00:46,550 --> 00:00:49,050 somebody's parents , somebody's sibling , 17 00:00:49,050 --> 00:00:51,980 somebody's coworker , somebody's friend . 18 00:00:51,990 --> 00:00:55,600 So when one passes away , when one is 19 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,070 lost , it's not just one , it's not , 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,180 it's me the benefit of training . 21 00:01:02,190 --> 00:01:04,590 Training gives us the tools that we 22 00:01:04,590 --> 00:01:08,110 need to be able to act when the 23 00:01:08,110 --> 00:01:10,710 situation presents itself . If you see 24 00:01:10,710 --> 00:01:13,090 an invitation and opening and 25 00:01:13,090 --> 00:01:16,770 conversation to have the 26 00:01:16,770 --> 00:01:18,992 tools to know what , what the next step 27 00:01:18,992 --> 00:01:21,159 would be gives you the ability and the 28 00:01:21,159 --> 00:01:23,270 confidence the step forth and to take 29 00:01:23,270 --> 00:01:25,548 that in for date invitation and to ask , 30 00:01:25,548 --> 00:01:29,410 are you thinking about suicide ? 31 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,300 The willingness to ask the question 32 00:01:33,300 --> 00:01:36,960 comes with it comes with being willing 33 00:01:36,970 --> 00:01:40,580 to internally accept the answer and to 34 00:01:40,580 --> 00:01:42,890 take action off of that . If you have 35 00:01:42,890 --> 00:01:45,380 the tools , if you have the training , 36 00:01:45,390 --> 00:01:47,590 if you have at least given it thought 37 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,780 beforehand , when you find yourself in 38 00:01:49,780 --> 00:01:51,780 that situation , when presented the 39 00:01:51,780 --> 00:01:54,600 opportunity to intervene , you will 40 00:01:55,370 --> 00:01:58,170 maybe scary it . 41 00:01:59,340 --> 00:02:03,230 Yeah , maybe the hardest 42 00:02:03,230 --> 00:02:05,890 thing you ever do in your life . But 43 00:02:05,900 --> 00:02:08,067 that's why we practice , that's why we 44 00:02:08,067 --> 00:02:10,470 train . That's why we're ready to take 45 00:02:10,470 --> 00:02:12,581 action . We're talking about people's 46 00:02:12,581 --> 00:02:15,660 lives . I definitely 47 00:02:16,640 --> 00:02:20,020 learned . I think the most from the 48 00:02:20,030 --> 00:02:21,863 watching out for the invitations 49 00:02:21,863 --> 00:02:24,440 because people will say things kind of 50 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,960 off hand and you're like , you know , I 51 00:02:27,970 --> 00:02:30,870 feel like I am better suited now to 52 00:02:30,870 --> 00:02:33,100 really pay attention to those little 53 00:02:33,100 --> 00:02:35,267 things and be like , well maybe that's 54 00:02:35,267 --> 00:02:37,322 something , not just kind of blow it 55 00:02:37,322 --> 00:02:39,656 off , but really think about it and say , 56 00:02:39,656 --> 00:02:41,822 well , what did you mean by that ? You 57 00:02:41,822 --> 00:02:44,350 know , if something kind of tingles , 58 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,582 I'm like , wait a minute , Maybe I need 59 00:02:46,582 --> 00:02:48,920 to ask another follow up question . How 60 00:02:48,920 --> 00:02:50,809 are you really doing ? You know , 61 00:02:50,809 --> 00:02:53,031 really ? How are you really doing ? You 62 00:02:53,031 --> 00:02:56,710 know , one message really 63 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,110 would be to get to know your people 64 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,560 other than how's it going . Um 65 00:03:03,940 --> 00:03:06,051 really truly get two million people , 66 00:03:06,051 --> 00:03:08,760 how , who lives at home with them get 67 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,927 to know their , their spouse's names , 68 00:03:10,927 --> 00:03:13,038 that kids names , do they participate 69 00:03:13,038 --> 00:03:15,480 in sports ? How are their grades ? That 70 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,640 shows a genuine sense of caring . And 71 00:03:18,650 --> 00:03:21,290 also , if you see this person go 72 00:03:21,290 --> 00:03:23,760 through some stress is it , can you , 73 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,350 you can then provide relief for them 74 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,471 because you , you know , the insights 75 00:03:29,471 --> 00:03:32,150 of their lives . Um whether it comes to 76 00:03:32,150 --> 00:03:34,500 single parents Milton mill , um 77 00:03:34,510 --> 00:03:37,280 childcare , uh , too much work kids 78 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,169 feeling in school because they're 79 00:03:39,169 --> 00:03:41,224 spending too much time at work . You 80 00:03:41,224 --> 00:03:43,447 can then step in to provide some relief 81 00:03:43,447 --> 00:03:46,200 by taking away some of the 82 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,320 responsibilities , not permanently 83 00:03:48,330 --> 00:03:50,497 because we still have to do our jobs , 84 00:03:50,497 --> 00:03:53,730 but really truly genuine showing up for 85 00:03:53,740 --> 00:03:56,660 people by showing them we know them by 86 00:03:56,660 --> 00:03:58,716 getting to know them . And so we can 87 00:03:58,716 --> 00:04:01,660 recognize when there are problems 88 00:04:01,740 --> 00:04:04,350 through talking through life . You just 89 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,760 run into people that you discover that 90 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,110 they may be in a hard place in life . 91 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,342 They may be experiencing something that 92 00:04:12,342 --> 00:04:14,410 is difficult or they may be thinking 93 00:04:14,410 --> 00:04:17,450 about situations or events that have 94 00:04:17,450 --> 00:04:21,230 unfolded and not framing those thoughts 95 00:04:21,230 --> 00:04:23,452 in an appropriate manner . And they may 96 00:04:23,452 --> 00:04:25,619 be taking a very permanent solution to 97 00:04:25,619 --> 00:04:29,330 a very temporary problem . We 98 00:04:29,330 --> 00:04:32,850 need to be a force that cares be a 99 00:04:32,850 --> 00:04:35,280 force that helps people through their 100 00:04:35,280 --> 00:04:38,920 struggles . If I reach out a hand and 101 00:04:38,930 --> 00:04:42,550 help one person , uh 102 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,280 it's been a successful , it's been a 103 00:04:46,280 --> 00:04:48,058 successful day . Perhaps even a 104 00:04:48,058 --> 00:04:50,090 successful career . I have a 105 00:04:50,090 --> 00:04:54,460 military . 106 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:00,240 Yeah .